Only a week after 10% of Bryant’s student population stormed the Harvard campus and filled up his concert hall, Benjamin Zander came to our home turf — Bryant University — for an “Evening of Ideas & Shining Eyes.”
I started the event with, “Let me explain how Benjamin Zander ended up in Smithfield, Rhode Island.” I started telling the story of our first phone call, but he grabbed the microphone and said, “Lauren, sit down. I HAVE to finish this story.” To the erupting laughter of the audience, I conceded!
Over the course of the evening, back and forth between the piano and the audience, Zander introduced three revolutionary concepts to the Bryant campus:
1) You can live in one of two worlds: the world of downward spirals or the world of radiating possibilities.
When you are trapped in downward spirals, everything is either a success or a failure. For example, our country’s educational system - either an A or an F. And what happens when you
reach your A? Is that it? Is it only down from there? Most of what we read in the newspapers, or see on TV, are downward spirals. For example, “Sports… Survivor… The Apprentice… Paris Hilton telling you what she thinks about the world.”
However, over in the world of radiating possibilities, you don’t know WHAT’S going to happen! You just know it’s going to be good. Possibilities and opportunities radiate in every which way. Instead of stopping for that “A” you create your own grade, outside the realm of traditional measurements.
2) In order to live in the latter world, you must be able to enroll others in your mission. The example he used was how we enrolled him to come speak at Bryant for free. “Usually people offer me a lot of money to come speak. Lauren offered me nothing!” Instead, I tried my best to show him all of the non-monetary value there was in coming to speak to so many passionate, entrepreneurial students. Enroll others in your mission by opening up possibilities for them they didn’t even know were there.
3) THE FACTOR. Every single moment of your life you have a chance to be a leader. To be a leader, you must open up possibilities for others that they never knew, nor imagined, were there. Anyone can manage employees, but to continually and passionately open up possibilities for others is a skill worth admiring and emulating.
Having the factor simply means that you are not only living in the world of radiating possibilities, but are also actively enrolling others to join you.
The evening itself was an unforgettable moment in Bryant’s history of events and we deeply thank Benjamin Zander for transforming the mindset of tomorrow’s young leaders.


